As racism and other
ism’s effect children and families, educators are not exempt from the harsh
effects ism’s have on individuals. Educators are neither exempt from having
biases of their own towards other individual either. When I think back over the
past few months, I can recall having a certain feeling towards same sex
relationships. Due to my upbringing, I had believed that relationships were to
be between a man and a woman. Since then, my feelings regarding this issue have
changed. I now understand that as an educator, it is my responsibility to
support children and families and not try to bring harm to their family
structure. If I had those same feelings as before, I am sure that it would be
very challenging to work with families especially if they were aware of my
bias.
As I think back over my
life, there was an incident in my life where other individuals were prejudice
towards me because of the color of my skin and culture. I am an African
American female and have felt offended at times because of my race. Years ago I
worked for the housing authority in a predominantly Caucasian community. Every
day when I would take my lunch break, I would have multiple individuals stare
at me as they drove pass my vehicle. It was so awful that I was even called a
“Nigger” and other numerous names by these individuals. Working in that community
was very uncomfortable and I eventually resigned from my job. Even though this
incident took place, I do not have any resentful feelings towards Caucasian
individuals.
If I were resentful to
others of that same race, I do believe that it would not be a good situation.
When working within the education field, educators have to work with children
and families off all cultures. Educators cannot be prejudice against children
and families if they expect to create close relationships and partnership with
families. I do believe that if an individual has a bias towards another, it
will show through the individual’s words and actions. That is why there is no
room for bias remarks or gestures when working with families and especially
young children. As in all other areas of learning, young children try to make
sense of their world by organizing what they observe and experience into “theories”
(Derman-Sparks & Edwards, 2010). For example, if I were to have a closer
relationship with African American children and keep a distance when working
with children and families of other cultures, over time I will have created a message
regarding the type of relationships I have with certain children and families.
These are indirect messages that are like “social trace contaminants”-tiny or
unseen messages that accumulate over time to create harm (Pierce 1980).
Reference
Derman-Sparks, L., & Olsen Edwards,
J. (2010). Anti-bias education for young children and ourselves.
Washington, D.C.: National Association for the Education of Young Children
(NAEYC).
Hi Cotati,
ReplyDeleteI find it such a shame that people feel comfortable and okay to say such rude words to people. I can imagine how uncomfortable you were feeling because of this. Thank you for not holding judgment against Caucasian people for saying these words to you. Like you commented on my blog, we can't let these issues come into the classroom with us. We unfortunately live in a world where these prejudice and bias actions and words will always exist.
Thank you for sharing your experiences!
Caitlin
I agree with you 100% Contati!
ReplyDeleteAs a Caucasian person I have had racist comments hurled at me as a child, because of my extra curly frizzy hair, while growing up in a predomient white area of town,especially in the 1970's. I have always known a little about how my fellow African Americans feel like when hurled with hateful racist names. I remember feeling ugly,different and for many years, I hated my hair as a result of those experiences. We shouldn't ever let our beliefs dictate how we treat others because if a same sex marriage, ethnicity or religious beliefs. For the most part if we are practing Christians we need to show love,and never hate it being judgmental due to our beliefs.
Thanks for posting this! :-)
Thanks for posting this! :-)
It is ashame that people are still so ignorant when it comes to race. The worst part about it is that inocent chidlren are brain washed by these teachings that they are getting from their prejudice parents.
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